Tips to Give a Handjob

Ways to Give Legendary Hand Jobs
Best hand job game plan suiting your tastes is laid out by your Sex experts.

Hand jobs can still be weirdly intimidating for something so vanilla (relatively speaking)? Wielding the power of a really amazing handy is life-changing, blog jobs might get all the glory, but. Some sex experts have been rounded up to explain exactly what to do in this subject.

1. It’s all mental. To get your guy started by getting him to imagine the hot and heavy stuff that’s about to go down, Jacqui Oliver, a psycho-sexual relationship consultant, says. Don’t be afraid to talk dirty! To the actual destination by getting into the right mindset, it can turn second base from a pit stop on the way to sex.

2. Hold him steady. Keep pointer finger to support the base of his penis and adding slight downward pressure Oliver says to make a “V” shape with your thumb. As he becomes erect so it doesn’t “bounce” around too much, this holds his penis in place.

3. Stretch it out. Slowly stretch out the length of his penis with your one hand (your thumb should be pointing down towards his balls) while applying some lube in your other hand. You can bring your support hand up and repeat the same slow stretch once your lubed hand nears the top of his penis. Repeat until you’re both impressed by your hand dexterity.

4. Use your fingers. To create a delicate touch can be super stimulating and unexpected sure, it’s called a hand job, but using your finger pads. Using the pads of your fingers and lubrication to glide up and down his shaft as suggested by Antonia Hall, a psychologist and relationship expert.

5. His sweet spots should be specially taken care of and keep an eye out for. Hall explains that the the base of his penis, the perineum (area just beneath his balls) and frenulum (under the tip of his penis), and are three sensitive spots to pay extra attention to. You need to stimulate these areas somehow you have to make it sure.

6. Ask your partner! Watching your partner touch themselves and asking what they like is the most efficient way to become a pro at handies as per Jennifer Rahner, a sex educator. The best way to figure it out is to ask whether your partner prefers lots of lube or just a little (uncircumcised guys sometimes enjoy stimulation without lube, says Rahner), or if it is preferable to him to use a light touch or a firm touch for a better stmulation. 

7. Read their signals. It doesn’t mean you can zone out and just phone it in until he climaxes Just because you’ve asked them what they like. You’ll also want to pay close attention to his body language during stimulation. “Listen to your partner’s body — their breath, their noises, the way they move,” says Rahner. “These can all show signs that you’re on the right track.”

8. Free up a hand. Emily Morse, a doctor of Human Sexuality, and host of the Sex with Emily podcast, explains. Because of more movement, more lube, first you’ll need a really good silicone lube. Ways to Give Legendary Hand Jobs

Best handjob game plan suiting your tastes is laid out by your Sex experts.

Handjobs can still be weirdly intimidating for something so vanilla (relatively speaking)? Wielding the power of a really amazing handy is life-changing, blog jobs might get all the glory, but. Some sex experts have been rounded up to explain exactly what to do in this subject.

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1. It's all mental. To get your guy started by getting him to imagine the hot and heavy stuff that's about to go down, Jacqui Oliver, a psycho-sexual relationship consultant, says. Don't be afraid to talk dirty! To the actual destination by getting into the right mindset, it can turn second base from a pit stop on the way to sex.

2. Hold him steady. Keep pointer finger to support the base of his penis and adding slight downward pressure Oliver says to make a "V" shape with your thumb. As he becomes erect so it doesn't "bounce" around too much, this holds his penis in place.

3. Stretch it out. Slowly stretch out the length of his penis with your one hand (your thumb should be pointing down towards his balls) while applying some lube in your other hand. You can bring your support hand up and repeat the same slow stretch once your lubed hand nears the top of his penis. Repeat until you're both impressed by your hand dexterity.

4. Use your fingers. To create a delicate touch can be super stimulating and unexpected sure, it's called a hand job, but using your finger pads. Using the pads of your fingers and lubrication to glide up and down his shaft as suggested by Antonia Hall, a psychologist and relationship expert.

5. His sweet spots should be specially taken care of and keep an eye out for. Hall explains that the base of his penis, the perineum (the area just beneath his balls) and frenulum (under the tip of his penis), and are three sensitive spots to pay extra attention to. You need to stimulate these areas somehow you have to make it sure.

6. Ask your partner! Watching your partner touch themselves and asking what they like is the most efficient way to become a pro at hand as per Jennifer Rahner, a sex educator. The best way to figure it out is to ask whether your partner prefers lots of lube or just a little (uncircumcised guys sometimes enjoy stimulation without lube, says Rahner), or if it is preferable to him to use a light touch or a firm touch for a better stimulation. 

7. Read their signals. It doesn't mean you can zone out and just phone it in until he climaxes Just because you've asked them what they like. You'll also want to pay close attention to his body language during stimulation. "Listen to your partner's body — their breath, their noises, the way they move," says Rahner. "These can all show signs that you're on the right track."

8. Free up a hand. Emily Morse, a doctor of Human Sexuality, and host of the Sex with Emily podcast explain. Because of more movement, more lube, first you'll need a really good silicone lube. Silicone based and long lasting SKYN Maximum Performance is what Morse recommends. Also, it comes in the most beautiful bottle ever as we're also big fans of Lelo's lube as it feels luxe AF. Squeezing gently on his head, and then working your way back down, once you're lubed enough, try seamlessly bringing your hand from the base of his shaft up and over his head. Use the other hand simultaneously for putting on a bit of a show for him and stimulating yourself.

9. Use both hands. You can still get all fancy with two hands if you've exhausted the one-hander. When you stack both hands on his shaft, one on top of the other, Morse says to try the two-handed twist. Taking time to vary the pressure so you're also gently stroking and squeezing Twist your hands slowly in opposite directions.

10. Focus on the head. Because you want things very lubed up when you're stimulating his head, go ahead and reapply your lube here. Morse says gently squeeze and play with the head of his penis to use one hand to stroke him from the base of his penis to his head, and then using your other hand. Ask him what he likes! Does he want it stronger or lighter? Faster or slower? The only way to know is to ask.

11. Make yourself comfortable. You don't have to stay glued in one position until completion, no good partner wants you to get a weird cramp in your wrist, and you'll enjoy yourself way more as the giver too if you know that. He might be soaking it all up, but you're the star of the show here. As you pleasure him so he can see all of you at different angles, Morse suggests playing around with your own positioning. "You can have him lay down while you sit up and pleasure him, or you can have him stand up while you sit beneath him." She says. Don't forget the art of the tease as there are an infinite amount of positions to try.

Yes, there's a right way and wrong way.

To give your man a great handjob, there is a right way and a wrong way. The best way and not just the right way is explained here to give a handjob.

Thankfully, it's not rocket science.

Your man will be in heaven when you put your hands on his penis without it being awkward at all concentrate on just getting a few of the following things right. 

1. Handjob foreplay is a thing.
You'll find that it's way hotter to slowly build up to it with what I like to call "Hand Job Foreplay, rather than just grabbing his penis and giving him a hand job as fast as you can. 

Start by kissing him like you normally would. While kissing him, slowly lower your hand toward his crotch outside his clothes. For maximum stimulation, start to softly rub the inside of his thigh slowly brush past his crotch. Slowly move your hand over his groin area (while still outside his clothes) and start to gently grab and massage his penis after doing this for about a minute. You can start hearing him groan and sigh with pleasure at this stage.

Slip your hand inside his underwear to slowly hold grab hold of his penis, it's time to slowly unbutton his pants for this. But there's no need to speed up just yet. You give your man time to enjoy each and every one of your touches and do everything very slowly and sensually.

You can make handjob foreplay last for up to 10 minutes if you're not getting too caught up in the heat of the moment.

2. For your handjob, you could be using two hands for maximum pleasure. 
To give a good handjob, many women never properly learn how to do properly. As a result, they end up only using one technique. Keep tugging it up and down, non-stop, at the same speed until he orgasms without ever changing your grip, this is what I call "The Claw," where you simply grab him proceed.

This isn't absolutely terrible, but it is quite boring (and often very tiring).