To have sex with your man is the sexiest thing you can do, isn't it right? Wait for just a second! Mutual masturbation and revealing your masturbation style to your lover can produce intense orgasms, which's something so primal and delicious.
Why mutual masturbation
Mutual masturbation solves some problems.
You can be intimate before you're ready to have sex. When you're in a long-distance relationship, you can enjoy sexuality.
For any specific reason like infection, disability, upcoming Pap smear, risky pregnancy, etc. you can't have penetrative sex, but still, you can be sexual. (activities without penetration are known as outercourse).
Prevent the spread of STIs. Skin contact alone is responsible for the spreading of some STIs.
You can try something new to make your sex life more fun (find out more ways to spice up your sex life).
It's not just for teens!
To increase your interest in sex, masturbating together can also be a great way, and it works as excellent foreplay.
It comes with all the benefits of masturbation, including stress relief plus, while masturbating in front of each other.
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In case you were wondering, masturbation definitely isn't bad for you .
Getting the courage to masturbate in front of your man
A lot of women have difficulty masturbating in front of their men. Many think that other women don't masturbate and women may take longer to become comfortable with solo exploration than men do. But that's not true. For both men and women, masturbating is common and healthy.
It can actually be kind of intimidating despite the fact that you might already have had sex to be masturbating in front of your man Initiating mutual masturbation.
How do you get down to it?
In a variety of ways, you can suggest mutual masturbation with the courage to your man. Sexy text sent during the day could do the trick. When you're getting down and dirty you might simply pause to tell him you think it would be hot to watch each other without having sex.
Another option is to strip for your man. You lose the clothing; he gains an erection. Sexy music plays in the background, and the lights are down low. But you let him know that he can't touch you – only himself.
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He might accidentally walk in on you while you're masturbating, and he may decide to join and have fun.
Mutual masturbation can also start similarly to sex. You might be making out. Perhaps you're performing dry humping for your pleasure. You want to do something about it with your man as you're aroused and horny.
The mechanics of masturbating together
You can start touching yourself when you're in a convenient position and with required privacy. Slip a finger or two inside with necessary lube, rub your clit, pinch your nipples all to make you horny further. Whatever it is that you like – do it. Your man will be doing the same.
Kissing is also important during mutual masturbation. You can lay a wet one on him if you're facing each other.
You don't need to face each other and you don't need to kiss if you don't want to, either. While you're masturbating you could think of draping a leg over your man.
Giving a handjob
You can also give each other a hand. Stroke his cock and massage his balls. It is especially nice if you like mutual clitoral and G-spot stimulation as he can reach between your legs. Lean into each other and give one another pleasure.
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Handjob technique varies if your man is uncut. Gently see how far you can move the foreskin. Sometimes it's tighter, so you want to avoid pulling it too much, which can be painful. If his skin is a bit looser and more charming, you'll have little more leeway.
When all else fails, ask him how he likes it or to show you how to stroke him.
1. Include sex toys
Many women rely on sex toys to masturbate. Mutual masturbation is the perfect time to bring out your favourite vibrator or dildo which perhaps you haven't added them to regular sex, but.
To avoid uncomfortable friction, make sure to use plenty of lube. With all toy materials, water-based lubes are compatible.
2. Try it over cam or phone
Are you separated from your lover? Mutual masturbation to the rescue! Two of you can have a great time together if you turn on your cam or dial his phone when you're masturbating.
3. Talk dirty to each other
It's the perfect time to talk dirty when you're masturbating together. What you're doing and how good it feels you can specifically reference.
4. Take control
Telling your man how you want him to touch himself can be hotter than you ever imagined. Tell him to massage his balls (tips for giving testicle massage) or pinch his nipples or stroke his shaft. He breaks out of his routine and you get to watch.
You can share your fantasies with your man while you're mutually masturbating. Share a sex dream or one of the fantasies you have yet to share with your man or perhaps talk about a time when you had sex that was especially hot.
7. Add porn
While you masturbate, you can think of watching porn together? Watching your man alone isn't enough and inspiring, hence try porn. If it takes your fancy you might also emulate what's on the screen.
8. One at a time
You don't always have to masturbate together. You masturbate while the other watches as only one of you is in the mood.
9. Simultaneous orgasm
It's usually easier said than done to be able to cum at the same time is a worthy goal; although. The person who has an easier time achieving orgasm should try to time theirs when they can tell that the other one is close.